My roommate is becoming really promiscuous !?

Hello I'm Alex. Me and my best friend Alejandro are gay we recently moved from a small country suburb in Virginia to the city in Washington D.C. We just graduated last year we're both 19 anyways we love living in the city where on the west side so it's fun safe clubs,musems 5 minutes from the white house and the rent isn't horrible life has seemed. Perfect but my roomate has chaged since moving from the country he was real nice with morals etc. Now He spends money like wanters is blowing up his credit cards we club alot I meen we live in dupont circle but I noticed he is clubbing every night and he's bringing home new guys everynight. Just within december he's brong home at 14 differn't guys an dhas had sex with them I can hear it and he dosn't seem ashamed at all. I don't want to sound prude because I'm not a saint myself but it's kinda redundant seeing a new naked mexican or italian guy cooking naked in my kitchen or layed on my couch. I love him dearly but this new nonchalant celebrity sluttacious attitude is getting to me and I'm afraid for his health what should I do. This kid was a Virgin when we moved ot the city on Halloween and he's sleep with at least 35 guys !|||This is the problem with some people and some homosexuals. Some say that it's a big thing and achievement to come to terms with your homosexuality, but it doesn't mean that the world is now your oyster. With coming to terms or coming out, only means a smaller margin for error and more responsibility. It also means it's your chance to prove that homosexuals are normal people and are not some stereotype or sex-crazed person who lets this become who they are. Actually, this goes for anyone - straight or homosexual - as well. We all have to be civil, educated, learned and neutral.|||Talk to him, let him know he is thinking with the head of his D*ck and not the head on his shoulders.





He's not only putting his health at risk, but also his credit and future.





Just talk to him, and if he gets angry, and your paying the rent, kick him out.|||please talk to him hon





this can definitely be dangerous





not only talk to him about the health risks...but, about being inconsiderate to you and the living situation|||He seems to have a sexual appetite, So offer him professional help or talk to him about it.|||plz talk quick before he gets some crazied disease for real...|||Sounds like he's sowing his wild oats. Just be sure he's sowing them (or being sown) using precautions. Different cultures have different views on how much sex is TOO much sex but most can agree that excessive sex borders on slutty. Unless your roommate wants an unwanted reputation (and some unwanted STD's) he may want to consider slowing down a bit.





Some people are sex fiends all their lives. But for the most part, after enough sex, people realize there's more to other people than what's in their pants. Hopefully he'll get to this point soon.





I'm sorry it's bringing pressure to bear on your friendship. If the situation gets too unbearable, you may have to consider finding a new roommate. Or talk to Alejandro, let him know you're concerned and work something out. Does he ever go to other guy's places to "do the deed" and leave you in relative peace and quiet? I'd say as long as he checks in and let's you know where he is (though it sounds like you're just friends and not in a relationship where it's polite to let your partner know where you are and what you're doing) perhaps he may want to consider not bringing every trick back to your place.





He should recognize the luck he has had in finding a friend like you. I hope you two can work it out.





Good luck.|||well bro tell him that this bothers yoube nice tho dont come off bitchy or hint at this bitchyness it'll make things worse so i think ... i mean if you dont talk to him he wont know and hey he might want to talk to you about it but doesnt know how to ... and some ppl will get lost in this scene and sounds like your buddy has tho you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and if this really bothers you rethink your living arrangements or like everyone else here said talk to him because after all es tu amigo ... he should understand and if he doesnt theres your answer. Hopefully things will change .. keep us updated on this yea ! thanks... and hope i helped.